America's Gay Bachelor 2008
Got a Nice Phone Call from Steven in Ft. Smith
who is Arkansas' Representative for
America's Gay Bachelor for 2008.
He Ask that we help him by going to the
America's Gay Bachelor 2008 Web Site
and
Vote for him for
America's Gay Bachelor of the Year
Here is the Link
Just a reminder that only one vote per IP address is allowed and voting ends July 1, 2008, which makes the next two weeks very important. Thank you so much, Steven.
Please Note that the Voting Deadline has been extended to July 1, 2008
Steven
| Name: Steven |
| Hometown: Fort Smith, Full time college student |
| In his own words: I have raised two wonderful kids and have had a wonderful life. I have gone through a lot of big changes in my life. I am a very expressive man, and want to know what you are thinking and feeling. |
| His perfect partner: I am looking for someone who is ready to be in a committed relationship and who will be content being with just one man. He must also be sensitive, outgoing, energetic, detail oriented, social, have a positive attitude, attentive and affectionate, believes in mutual respect, confident, comfortable in his sexuality, romantic and a classy guy. |
| Smooch scoop: Eye contact! You have to catch my attention, you have to say something sexy with your eyes. That is very alluring to me. |
| Sexiest man getups: The exterior is a plus, because I like a well put together man. But the character that shines through is most important. Competence and confidence are sexy. Shy is OK, but proud of who they are. |
| Dating pet peeve: Listening is a very important part of communication: conversation dominators are a real turn off. Also, rudeness, bad meal manners, having no manners, abruptness. |
| Listen up, men: This is how I am described according to a recent character calculation assessment... Attractive personality, Trustworthy, Affectionate, Naturally honest, generous, and sympathetic, Sensitive to others, Loves to serve others, Loves peace and serenity, Not easily angered, Observant and assess others, Appreciative and returns kindness, Loves to dream and fantasize, Loves traveling, Loves attention, Loves home decors, Mysterious, Musically talented, and Loves special things. Now, my own words... I possess an genial and pleasant quality and along with that, I am a classy, compassionate, creative, energetic, and a take charge kind of guy with a zest for life, who loves deeply and passionately. When it comes to love I am definitely not casual and I do not understand some people who are incapable of making lasting commitments. I express myself quickly and clearly and my love nature is ardent and direct. The object of my affection knows exactly where he stands at all times because for me, there is a depth of feeling that a close relationship brings to the surface. I believe in being devoted and loyal to just one man. But all this is only the half of it. A relationship takes two people who are not identical necessarily, but equals, not only with what is received but also with what is given. I am very much relationship focused and oriented, even to the point where I have subjected myself to substandard but, not to conclude that I think I am too good for anyone. It's not like that at all. Moral integrity is important to me and while I am not judgmental, I will not violate a principle. If you feel what I am saying, then you surely understand what I mean. This time around, I am planning ahead and holding my ground, and hopefully my proposition will be well received and my proactive strategy will pay off. Something's got to give. I am no longer settling for anything less in a guy who is not compatible with me and me with him. I am well aware that no one is perfect and therefore, no relationship will ever be perfect. Adjustments and compromises will always have to be made in any relationship. However, when two people are truly compatible outside of the bedroom as well as in, then the relationship can and will be at it's best. If I sound like the right guy for you, then you are likely the right guy for me. If you can relate to me and you are as serious as I am about a relationship, then we are well on our way toward having what we both have been missing. In summary... Many people meet when their paths cross in the literal sense while others being fewer, meet when their paths cross relating to that of a much deeper meaning and understanding. I would like my potential partner and I to be able to share much of the same when it comes to what we have learned from life and life's experiences and how he and I arrived at this point in time; for this... is where we will have truly met. Here is a poem I have written to convey how I feel about me and my potential partner. |
| Future goal: I am working toward a major career change. Working toward an associates degree and then a bachelors, and I am hoping to become an interior designer. Taking it one step at a time. I have a couple of years to go! I have my eye to get into a great design school in Little Rock! |